{"id":10481,"date":"2021-10-12T10:00:03","date_gmt":"2021-10-12T07:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/?p=10481"},"modified":"2022-12-05T12:53:51","modified_gmt":"2022-12-05T09:53:51","slug":"kendinize-soylemeyi-birakmak-isteyebileceginiz-7-yalan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/blog\/2021\/10\/12\/kendinize-soylemeyi-birakmak-isteyebileceginiz-7-yalan\/","title":{"rendered":"Kendinize S\u00f6ylemeyi B\u0131rakmak \u0130steyebilece\u011finiz 7 Yalan"},"content":{"rendered":"

Belki de her g\u00fcn kendinize yalan s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsunuz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pazartesi g\u00fcn\u00fc m\u00fckemmel bir \u015fekilde bekletti\u011finiz ama \u00f6nemli olan i\u015fe ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, 1 Ocak’ta planl\u0131 bir hayata ge\u00e7ece\u011finizi, Hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc olmas\u0131n\u0131n su\u00e7lusunun ailenizin\/sistemin oldu\u011funu … vs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Halbuki,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kendinize s\u00f6yledi\u011finiz yalanlar, en zarar verici olanlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130\u015fte baz\u0131 \u00f6rnekler,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Pazartesi ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131m.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Diyet, b\u00fct\u00e7e, egzersiz plan\u0131 veya ba\u015fka bir giri\u015fim olsun, kendinize Pazartesi g\u00fcn\u00fc ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6ylemek bir yaland\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Elbette Pazartesi sizin tercih g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz olabilir. Ama \u015funa \u00e7ok dikkat edin tercih mi erteleme mi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yapmaya de\u011fiyorsa, hemen ba\u015flamaya da de\u011fer. Neden bekleyesiniz ki?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Hepsi ailemin su\u00e7u.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Baz\u0131 ailelerin ebeveynlik i\u015finde berbat olduklar\u0131na \u015f\u00fcphe yok. Ama hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yoluna koymak i\u00e7in bir\u00e7ok f\u0131rsat\u0131n\u0131z oldu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sistemler, insanlar veya ekonomi berbat, birileri i\u00e7in hep berbat olacak. Bug\u00fcn\u00fcn su\u00e7unu ge\u00e7mi\u015fe, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na y\u00fcklemek gelece\u011finizi s\u0131n\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bug\u00fcn hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 daha iyi hale getirmek i\u00e7in yapabilece\u011finiz \u00e7ok \u015fey var. Ve bunlar\u0131n hepsi sizin elinizde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. E\u011fer _____ olsayd\u0131, her \u015fey m\u00fckemmel olurdu.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Paraya, m\u00fc\u015fteriye, i\u015fe ya da \u201cm\u00fckemmel\u201d bir hayata sahip olmak i\u00e7in ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz herhangi bir \u015feye sahip oldu\u011funuzda, muhtemelen sahip olman\u0131z gereken ba\u015fka bir \u015fey daha bulacaks\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015eu anda istedi\u011finiz \u015feyin arkas\u0131nda her zaman bekleyen ba\u015fka bir \u015fey vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hayatta m\u00fckemmel diye bir \u015fey yoktur. O y\u00fczden m\u00fckemmelin pe\u015finden ko\u015fmay\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131n. \u0130stediklerinizi s\u0131ra ile elde edip, keyfini \u00e7\u0131karmaya bak\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Ben herkesten farkl\u0131y\u0131m.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Herkes benzersizdir, ancak insanlar aras\u0131ndaki benzerlikler, farkl\u0131l\u0131klardan \u00e7ok daha fazlad\u0131r. O kadar da farkl\u0131 de\u011filsin ve sen de y\u00f6netilemeyecek bir sorun olmas\u0131 pek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil. Sen de bir\u00e7ok insan gibi yapabilirsin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Benim i\u00e7in \u00e7ok ge\u00e7.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Baz\u0131 \u015feyler i\u00e7in \u00e7ok ge\u00e7 olabilir. Ama bir\u00e7ok \u015fey i\u00e7in ge\u00e7 de\u011fil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Henry Ford T Model arabay\u0131 1908 y\u0131l\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda 45 ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mimar Sinan, 40 ya\u015f\u0131ndan sonra, \u00e7\u0131rakl\u0131k eserim dedi\u011fi \u015eehzadeba\u015f\u0131 Cami 57 ya\u015f\u0131nda, kalfal\u0131k eserim dedi\u011fi S\u00fcleymaniye Cami 66 ya\u015f\u0131nda yaparak ve irili ufakl\u0131 375 esere imzas\u0131n\u0131 att\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Zamanlama do\u011fru de\u011fil.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Zamanlama asla do\u011fru de\u011fildir ve asla do\u011fru olmayacakt\u0131r. Yapabiliyorken \u015fimdi yap. Bekledi\u011finiz her g\u00fcn ba\u015fka bir gecikme g\u00fcn\u00fcd\u00fcr. Sonsuza kadar ya\u015famayacaks\u0131n\u0131z ve hayat asla planlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 takip etmeyecek. Sadece yap\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hele giri\u015fimcilikte beklemek \u00e7o\u011fu zaman i\u015fi \u00f6l\u00fcme g\u00f6t\u00fcrmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Peki neden kendinize bu yalanlar\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsunuz? Daha iyi hissetmek i\u00e7in !<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130stedi\u011finiz giri\u015fime ba\u015flamak i\u00e7in haz\u0131r olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6yleyerek ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olmaktan ka\u00e7\u0131yor olabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kendinize ay\u0131n 1’inde ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6ylemek i\u00e7inizi rahatlat\u0131r ve ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 tarihine kadar o i\u015ften bizi uzak tutar. Halbuki f\u0131rsatlar belli zamanlarda gelmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zorluklar i\u00e7in ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 su\u00e7lars\u0131n\u0131z, b\u00f6ylece kendinizi su\u00e7lu olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za ikna ederek rahatlatabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bununla birlikte,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kendinize s\u00f6yledi\u011finiz yalanlar sizi kendinizin en b\u00fcy\u00fck d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 yapar ve hayat\u0131n\u0131zda ilerleme kaydetmenizi engeller.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kendinize kar\u015f\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcst olun ve l\u00fctfen hemen kendinize bir \u015fans verin.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Belki de her g\u00fcn kendinize yalan s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsunuz. Pazartesi g\u00fcn\u00fc m\u00fckemmel bir \u015fekilde bekletti\u011finiz ama \u00f6nemli olan i\u015fe ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, 1 Ocak’ta planl\u0131 bir hayata ge\u00e7ece\u011finizi, Hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc olmas\u0131n\u0131n su\u00e7lusunun ailenizin\/sistemin oldu\u011funu … vs. Halbuki, Kendinize s\u00f6yledi\u011finiz yalanlar, en zarar verici olanlard\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte baz\u0131 \u00f6rnekler, 1. Pazartesi ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131m. Diyet, b\u00fct\u00e7e, egzersiz plan\u0131 veya ba\u015fka bir giri\u015fim olsun, kendinize Pazartesi g\u00fcn\u00fc ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6ylemek…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11871,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[93],"class_list":["post-10481","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","tag-motivasyon"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10481","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10481"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10481\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11931,"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10481\/revisions\/11931"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11871"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10481"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10481"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10481"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}