{"id":11455,"date":"2019-11-23T17:00:48","date_gmt":"2019-11-23T14:00:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/?p=11455"},"modified":"2022-12-05T02:20:55","modified_gmt":"2022-12-04T23:20:55","slug":"kafanizda-kurmaya-devam-edin-derim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/blog\/2019\/11\/23\/kafanizda-kurmaya-devam-edin-derim\/","title":{"rendered":"Kafan\u0131zda Kurmaya Devam Edin Derim"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"blob:https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/8e74ff94-7551-46fc-bf0e-aa2e091114fb\" alt=\"hamburger.svg\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Hayallere \u00f6nem veren ile hayalperest aras\u0131nda ne fark vard\u0131r?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bizim toplumumuzda hayal kurmak tembellik, gereksiz ve faydas\u0131z vakit kayb\u0131 olarak de\u011ferlendirilir. Bunun en \u00f6nemli sebebi hayallerine inanan ve bunun i\u00e7in ad\u0131m atan insan say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n azl\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hayallere \u00f6nem veren insan ile hayalperest insan aras\u0131ndaki fark; hayalperest hayalleri kurar kurar sonrada hayata kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerden devam eder. Hayallerin \u00f6nemini bilen ki\u015fi ise kurdu\u011fu hayallerin ard\u0131ndan o konuda k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck dahi olsa ad\u0131m atar. Ko\u00e7luk ad\u0131m atma s\u00fcrecine destek verir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ko\u00e7lukta, hayal kurarak istedi\u011finiz (kendi kontrol\u00fcn\u00fcz alt\u0131nda ve pozitif) bir \u015feye ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z gelece\u011fin g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc, duygusunu ve sesini deneyimleme s\u00fcreci vard\u0131r. Yani sanki ona ula\u015fm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n\u0131z ve kendinize bak\u0131yorsunuzdur. Hayal edince duygularda hissedilmeye ba\u015flar, b\u00f6ylece ki\u015fi duyguyu \u015fu anda ya\u015fayarak motive olur ve ad\u0131m atmas\u0131 kolayla\u015f\u0131r. \u0130nsanlarda kal\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fiklikler mant\u0131ksal boyuttan ziyade duygusal boyutta de\u011fi\u015fim oldu\u011funda ger\u00e7ekle\u015fir. Bilincin g\u00f6z\u00fc ile \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcme ili\u015fkin i\u015fe yarayan bir g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde korku kaybolur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hayal kurmas\u0131n\u0131 bilen ve hayallerinin pe\u015finden giden insanlar daha \u00f6nce hedefe giden yolun ad\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 deneyimledi\u011fi i\u00e7in hayallerin de\u011ferini \u00e7ok iyi bilir ve ula\u015facaklar\u0131 hedefe inanarak yola \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130nsan en iyi kendini bilirmi\u015f. Bende ko\u00e7luk ile hayallerime daha \u00e7ok \u00f6nem vererek daha h\u0131zl\u0131 ve etkili \u015fekilde bir\u00e7ok istedi\u011fime ula\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ko\u00e7luk mesle\u011fi \u00fczerine ko\u00e7luk ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m zamanlar (ko\u00e7luk yapsak da herkes gibi geli\u015fimimizi devam ettirmek i\u00e7in ko\u00e7luk al\u0131r\u0131z ) hedeflerim hakk\u0131nda konu\u015furken sanki olmu\u015f \u00fczerine hayal kurmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn \u00f6n\u00fcne istedi\u011fim ofisin nereleri g\u00f6rece\u011fi, camdan bak\u0131nca manzaras\u0131n\u0131n nas\u0131l olaca\u011f\u0131na dair g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcler geliyordu. T\u00fcm ko\u00e7luk \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 boyunca ne zaman ofisimle alakal\u0131 hayal kursam ya da ne zaman yorulsam, engebeli bir yola girsem hayalimdeki o g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc ve onun getirdi\u011fi duygular beni kararl\u0131l\u0131kla yolda tuttu. Bir zaman sonra, yazarak not etti\u011fim tarihte, yeni ofisimde bir bardak \u00e7ay\u0131m\u0131 al\u0131p cam\u0131n kenar\u0131na geldi\u011fimde hayalimin ger\u00e7ek oldu\u011funu, hep g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn \u00f6n\u00fcne gelen g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcn\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131mda durdu\u011funu g\u00f6zlerim dolarak fark ettim. Bu g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc i\u00e7in o kadar enteresan, farkl\u0131 ve bazen de anlam veremedi\u011fim(bazen sanc\u0131l\u0131 bazen tatl\u0131)yollardan ge\u00e7mi\u015ftim ki. T\u00fcm bunlar\u0131n beni hayalime g\u00f6t\u00fcren(hatta hayalimdekinden de iyi) birer yol oldu\u011funu ancak o g\u00fcn anlayabildim ve yeni hedeflerim i\u00e7in yeni hayaller kurmaya, \u00f6n\u00fcme \u00e7\u0131kacak yolun keyfini \u00e7\u0131karmaya ba\u015flad\u0131m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hayallerin ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmesi onlara olan inanc\u0131m\u0131zla paraleldir. \u0130nan\u00e7 ya vard\u0131r ya yoktur. Bir \u015feye ya inan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z ya inanmazs\u0131n\u0131z. %99 inan\u0131yorum demek bile inanmamakt\u0131r asl\u0131nda. Hayallerimiz %100 inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmeye ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hayaller sadece size \u00f6zeldir zira kimse kafan\u0131zdaki resmi g\u00f6remez, kula\u011f\u0131n\u0131za gelen sesleri duyamaz ve Sizin hissettiklerinizi yakalayamaz. Hayallerinizin de\u011ferini bilin ve onlara sahip \u00e7\u0131k\u0131n. Ben sahip \u00e7\u0131kma ad\u0131na evde kitap okuma saatinin yan\u0131nda hayal kurma saati ba\u015flatt\u0131m bile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve sevdi\u011fim bir k\u0131ssa;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00dcnl\u00fc bir heykelt\u0131ra\u015fa muhte\u015fem heykelleri nas\u0131l yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 sorulmu\u015f. O da heykelin i\u015flenmi\u015f mermer blo\u011fun i\u00e7inde oldu\u011funu hayal etti\u011fini, zaten orada duran \u015feyi a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131karmak i\u00e7in fazlal\u0131klar\u0131 yonttu\u011funu s\u00f6ylemi\u015f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015eimdi kalem ka\u011f\u0131t al\u0131p inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z hayallerinizi yazmaya, onlara tarih koymaya ve sonras\u0131nda ad\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 belirlemeye ne dersiniz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Hayal kurmas\u0131n\u0131 bilen ve hayallerinin pe\u015finden giden insanlar daha \u00f6nce hedefe giden yolun ad\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 deneyimledi\u011fi i\u00e7in hayallerin de\u011ferini \u00e7ok iyi bilir ve ula\u015facaklar\u0131 hedefe inanarak yola \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"blob:https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/8fa268ff-9bc1-4da5-9fbe-281e3dbcb0fd\" alt=\"chev-down-white.svg\"\/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hayallere \u00f6nem veren ile hayalperest aras\u0131nda ne fark vard\u0131r? Bizim toplumumuzda hayal kurmak tembellik, gereksiz ve faydas\u0131z vakit kayb\u0131 olarak de\u011ferlendirilir. Bunun en \u00f6nemli sebebi hayallerine inanan ve bunun i\u00e7in ad\u0131m atan insan say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n azl\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Hayallere \u00f6nem veren insan ile hayalperest insan aras\u0131ndaki fark; hayalperest hayalleri kurar kurar sonrada hayata kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerden devam eder. Hayallerin \u00f6nemini bilen ki\u015fi ise kurdu\u011fu&hellip;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11897,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11455","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11455","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11455"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11455\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11953,"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11455\/revisions\/11953"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11897"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11455"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11455"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.esradoyuk.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11455"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}